Saturday, April 16, 2011

An Update On My Wife, Melanie

Many of you know about the problems Melanie has had with her back over the past few years. She was diagnosed a few years ago with a degenerative problem in her spine that the doctors said would progressively compromise the strength in her back. She had surgery this past August, then therapy for three months and has been slowly recovering since then.

A few days ago she had another incident that caused me to cut short my trip to California and immediately come back home to her. Last weekend we were out of town with a few friends for a weekend getaway. We ate breakfast in a restaurant on Sunday morning and something she ate made her sick. Shortly afterward, she vomited and said it felt like a knife pierced through her back when she did.

Obviously, we canceled her plan to go to California with me. I debated going but she insisted that she had most likely pulled a muscle and that I should go ahead without her. So I did, but no sooner did I arrive in Los Angeles on Thursday than she called to tell me that the results of the X-Rays she had done showed that it isn't a pulled muscle. She broke her back when she vomited. It's a fracture in L-1. (The surgery was on L4-5) I immediately changed my return flight and arrived back here last night at 2:00AM.

She is in terrible pain right now, but the earliest she could get into see the surgeon is Monday. Her previous surgeon said this will require a specialized surgery that he doesn't do. So we'll see a different surgeon on Monday and will know how this will proceed after that.

When I began this blog years ago, I said that I would use it for both personal and public posts. This is very personal to us. I'd appreciate your prayers. Our Father is faithful. We are trusting Him and ask you to pray for her during these trying days.

32 comments:

  1. Anonymous1:34 PM

    Oh precious Steve and Melanie, we are bathing you in prayer !! <3

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  2. Oh, I'm so sorry for the pain you both must be suffering! We will be praying and believing with you for a manifestation of Christ's life in Melanie's body.

    Peace & love.

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  3. Oh so sorry to hear this! Am praying - it does work, because our Father does. You're loved. Do keep us informed, please.

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  4. Prayers for peace and healing.

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  5. So sorry to hear that Steve. I will definitely be praying for Melanie.

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  6. Thank you, Tina & Jamie...

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  7. thank you Steve for sharing this shocking facts with us...i am very touched and i love to bring Melanie+you and the doctors and all involved before the Throne of Jesus!

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  8. Steve & Melanie:

    Thanks for sharing this Steve. Very sorry to hear about your wife Malanie. I will keep you both in my prayers and we will be praying for you tomorrow at our Support Group Meeting. Keep us posted.

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  9. Praying here as well.

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  10. Our prayers are with you. Love, Javier & Dennise.

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  11. This is TOO much. Bonnie & I are praying for both of you - Don't know what for at the moment.

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  12. May our Lord empower Melanie with His grace and to get her through this. Melanie, hold on to Him as He hemns you in before and behind and lays His hand on you. Even when Melanie may think that no one is praying for her, remind her often, Jesus, that You are praying for her this very second and always. I ask You, Father, to give Steve and Melanie Your strength for when we ,Your children, are weak then You are strong in us. May Your healing hand touch Melanie mightily and heal her. Your will be done. Amen

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  13. Praying for you and Melanie, Steve.

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  14. Steve, so sorry to hear that Melanie is in pain. Please know of our love and prayers for you both. Trusting the Lord to sustain you during this time of medical crisis and praying for Melanie's physical relief and complete healing of her spine. You are such a loving husband to her, Steve. May His grace fall down like rain...right now... ♥

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  15. Praying that Father God, Jehovah Rapha, the God who heals will touch Melanie with his healing balm. In Jesus Name. Amen.

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  16. I praise the Lord that he never puts forth his sheep without going before them, even so we are praying for the manifestation of his healing life throughout Melanie body.

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  17. Thank you all for your prayers. We do appreciate it.

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  18. Exodus 23.25 So you shall serve the Lord your God and He will bless your bread and your water. AND I WILL TAKE SICKNESS AWAY FROM THE MIDST OF YOU.
    Let's all declare this together over Melanie~!

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  19. I am so FOR you, my friend. I love you. I will be with God very much for you.

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  20. I had the same surgery about a year and a half ago. I will be praying.

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  21. Melanie, You are in my thoughts and prayers, you are in the bodies thoughts and prayers and praise. Thank you for sharing your husband and your lie with us. You bless us so much.
    Thanks God for you both

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  22. oh no, Steve. I'm so sorry, brother. That is horrible.... for Melanie obviously, and for you FOR her.

    Will certainly praying for Melanie and for you. Know that you are loved and lifted up, and share our intercession as an encouragement to your bride.

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  23. Ouch Steve... I'm just now hearing about this and am so saddened to hear about Melanie's back. Praying for you and her, and hoping for the very best.

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  24. Lord has healed her. Glory to Jesus!

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  25. Thinking of you all today, and wishing you well in all things concerning Melanie. Asking God to hurry-up the healing process, and relieve her from the pain of this ordeal. Let it just truly be a miracle, Lord! We Thank you, and know you're in this with her!

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  26. Standing in the faith of Christ with you Steve and Melanie - blessings from Aus

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  27. The Father knit us together while in our Mother's womb. I think He knows a thing or two about healing. I am deeply touched by the severity.. Please Papa do Your Thing! Your will be done. We so wish for complete healing recovery! In God's time may it be! We love you Steve and Melanie. We are victors and survivors identifying with Him Who causes us to triumph in all circumstances! Love from Dave and Chris

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  28. Daddy God --- I pray that You will infuse Your precious Melanie with Your peace that passes understanding! Permeate her with Your Love that casts out all fear. Exchange Melanie's strength with Your strength, Daddy God. I pray that as Melanie focuses on Jesus and the stripes He bore for her healing --- her back will be restored to the perfection You intended it to have from the foundation of the world. We rejoice in the knowing that You want Your Melanie pain free and whole, even infinitely more than we do! Let's agree that the Truth of God's Word will change the facts ASAP!!!

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  29. Daddy God --- I pray that You will infuse Your precious Melanie with Your peace that passes understanding! Permeate her with Your Love that casts out all fear. Exchange Melanie's strength with Your strength, Daddy God. I pray that as Melanie focuses on Jesus and the stripes He bore for her healing --- her back will be restored to the perfection You intended it to have from the foundation of the world. We rejoice in the knowing that You want Your Melanie pain free and whole, even infinitely more than we do! Let's agree that the Truth of God's Word will change the facts ASAP!!!

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  30. Prayer for Melanie: I cast out the spirit of infirmity in Jesus' Name, and pray healing over her spine, by the stripes of Jesus she is healed, by His Blood cleansed and forgiven. Praise God, thank you Jesus for healing her, by faith she receives complete healing and deliverance.
    Amen.

    Hold fast to God's promise of healing and deliverance and do not believe the feelings and signs (that can be felt or seen)which contradict God's Word...those signs and feelings are sent by the enemy and are lies - Thy Word is Truth, the Word declares.

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