One of the most debilitating problems I have seen in Christian's lives since I began constantly traveling in ministry fifteen years ago is a faulty concept of God the Father. It seems that there is a worldwide perception that, while Jesus is gentle and kind, the Father's holiness and justice causes Him to be more like a stern parent who says he loves you, but all he seems to think about is whether you are behaving or not.
How did the Father come to get such a bad rap? He certainly never did anything to deserve it. He has shown His heart toward us from the instant man breathed his first breath. The Bible describes that moment when man was created: God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created them; male and female He created them. (Genesis 1:27)
What did he do then? Did He sit them down and start rattling off a list of rules they had to obey to stay on His good side? Did He remind them that, after He was good enough to give them life, they ought to spend it serving Him?
There are three words in the Bible that tell exactly what God did right after He created Adam and Eve. These three words are the very first thing the Bible says happened after "male and female He created them." Do you know what it was?
"God blessed them." (Genesis 1:28) That's right, He blessed them. He spoke fruitfulness and abundance and authority into their new lives. The Trinity must have laughed in delight and pleasure to now have others with whom they could share the love and life He had been enjoying for all eternity past. After all, when it comes to a party - the more the merrier.
So then, the very first mention of God and man tells us that God blessed man. That's because it is His nature to bless. What else would One whose essence is love want to do? A little later, when Adam and Eve sinned and hid themselves in the garden, we again see God's heart.
God and Adam had established a wonderful habit of walking in the Garden together every evening around sunset. But when Adam sinned, he assumed that God surely wouldn't want to walk with him now. So he hid - the same thing man still does when he mistakenly thinks he has behaved in a way that disappoints or even angers God. Sin changed Adam's mind about God. He now saw God is a different way. He perceived Him to be angry, so he hid.
What did God do? He came for His walk, just like He had done every day. Get this point: sin didn't change God. It changed man. The Father, Son and Spirit still adored man although mankind had now become blind to that fact.
What did the Father do when He finally coaxed Adam and Eve out of the bushes? He looked at their feeble attempts to make themselves look more presentable to Him with a heart of compassion and love - His default setting. Then God took animal skins (a foreshadowing of the sacrifice of the Lamb of God) and covered them so they wouldn't be ashamed.
Notice that through it all, God never changed in His attitude toward man. He banished them from the Garden, not because He was angry, but because He didn't want them to eat from the Tree of Life and cause all mankind to be forever trapped in their fallen estate. Before they exited the Garden of Eden, He assured them that One would come who would totally vanquish the evil one who had lured them into this mess in which they now found themselves. (See Genesis 3:15)
Here's where people still miss it today: God isn't angry with us. He loves us and has "proven His love for us in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." (Romans 5:8) There is nothing you have ever done or could ever do that could change how God feels about you. He is Love (1 John 4:8)and love keeps no account of wrongdoing. (1 Corinthians 13:5)
God's default setting will forever be to love and accept you. The only unanswered question that remains then is this: Will you accept His acceptance?
Hi Steve,
ReplyDeleteI've found a lot of encouragement from your writing. Your way of seeing God's message in the Bible is almost too good to be true.
In this post you talk about God's default setting of love toward people, even while we are sinners. What I'm having trouble reconciling are the verses in the Bible that talk about God's wrath toward sinners. Fourteen times in the first fifty psalms alone, it says God hates the sinner, his wrath is on the liar, etc. John 3:36 also specifically refers to God's wrath on those who reject God.
I'm guessing your answer to this has something to do with, those on whom God's wrath still remains wouldn't even be reading your books, or something to that effect. Because I'm pretty sure that those who are not in Christ must be viewed differently by God than those in Christ, or else the ideal of evangelism falls apart. So I'm really curious as to your take on this because I'm pretty sure you've had to deal with that side of things as you worked out your theology when you first started Grace Walk Ministries and presented it to others over the years, in keeping consistent with all of the Bible.
Thanks,
Andrew
Thank you, Andrew. I'm glad you've been encouraged by my writing.
ReplyDeleteAs to the things you struggle with, I understand perfectly. There are many parts of Scripture that seem to be ambiguous at best and contradictory at worst. I don't believe the Bible contradicts itself, so why do there seem to be so many passages that don't fit with each other? Your point is well taken - if God really is pure love in essence, then what's all this stuff about wrath??
First, let me suggest that we all bring our own preconceived template to Scripture when we read it. If we have a mindset that sees God as basically impatient with sin and ready to zap those who cross the line, that's what we will zero in on when we read the Bible. All the other verses about His unconditional love, patience, etc. will "hide" in the background and we'll see only judgment in bold print.
On the other hand, if we relate to our Father on the basis of His love, we will see passages related to judgment through the lens of His love. That's where I come from these days.
For over three years, I taught four messages a month from each book of the Old Testament - from Genesis to Malachi. As I came to the prophets, it troubled me at first to see how much judgment there is in those books. I found myself feeling like God went through a period of time when He must have been in a bad mood. Of course, I'm not serious about that. But I did question all the "woe to you, I'm about to come down on you!" that He said through His prophets again and again.
Then, as I kept studying, it hit me: "Wait a minute! God does tell them that He is going to pour out wrath on them BUT THEN he tells them that after they are reduced to ashes He is going to raise them up and they will forever know that He is their God. They are told again and again that He will restore what was taken away and bless them beyond measure.
So, to me, the wrath of God can be seen as another side of love -intended to bring the wicked to the end of themselves so they will turn to Him in repentance and THEN experience the blessings He has wanted them to enjoy all along.
Finally, as I began by saying - I think that from a human standpoint some aspects of truth are a paradox that we won't ever reconcile in this life. So we have to choose which foundation we will function from as we read Scripture and in how we see God and others. As for me, I've decided to gamble on His goodness and grace and interpret everything through that lens. When I find things that seem to make no sense because they portray God as anything less than loving, I remind myself that there are things I simply don't and won't understand for now so I don't get bogged down by them. I shrug my shoulders, look up and say, "Ya know, You don't make sense to me some time" and then I go on receiving His love and telling others about it.
I hope this answer helps you a little.
We (my family) listened to your Sunday preaching this week last night as our family devotion.
ReplyDeleteI really liked the point you made then and reinterated here about sin changing man's view of God and not vice versa. This truth has been evidenced lately in our family as our daughter (15 yrs. old) has struggled with choosing her own way instead of God's way.
We (Eddie and I) have had to constantly remind ourselves of this truth as we have had to parent through some not good choices that she has made lately. God has been sooooo "over the top" graceful and loving through this that it is clearly evident to all involved that this has got to be God responding to her and not us.
I have constantly reminded her that she has got to decide what she is going to believe to be true about God. For example, choose whether or not you believe that God loves you no matter what. If you choose to believe that yes, He does, then speak that truth into your life, especially at the times when it seems least likely to be true. Only then will you see, feel, experience God's love for you no matter what, even in the midst of Him chastising you for sinful behavior.
Keep up the good work, Steve. We are sooooo encouraged by your confirmation of the truth of God's grace. This is our strength (by remembering Who it is that will do the work...that our strength IS Jesus) to get through each day...each hour of each day...each minute of each hour.
Whoa, whoa, whoa, we say to the horse with a bit and enjoy the ride in God's goodness and grace, and leave the "woe, woe, woe" of the angel with the last bowl or vial judgments to those who will listen and hear to repent. Our God is a good Father! Encouragment is all ("my heart could burst") for joy I want to say Steve for the grace message going forward. YOU ROCK! David Candel
ReplyDeletehey Steve.. I really love how you convey the essence of the Father's heart in this post.. really BEAUTIFUL..
ReplyDeleteBUT>>> "Genesis 2:28"???? .. am I missing something here??? =D
Okay - Phyilss. Caught me. See, I corrected it now - make that Genesis 1:28! Now, I'd tell you to confess your sin of pride in catching my mistake if all your sins weren't already forgiven :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Steve
ReplyDeleteIf God, Father, Son and Holy Spirit had not first believed in humanity none of us would ever come to believe. He is the author and finisher of our faith. Like you said Steve can we accept His acceptance of us? Sadly it appears that universal acceptance from Him to us does not necessarily mean that we will all accept Him universally, His love is not forced but the Holy Spirit will continue to try to convince us. jg
I am so glad to see people know their value, instead of being concerned about what organized religion says they are worth. (according to the law, or even worse"the commands of God." As they say.
ReplyDeleteI had a Father who was an extremely accepting and loving and godly Father. He never let the relative position of Dad to son and son to Dad stray far from the 'tree.' I was so accepted by him in an unconditional godly manner he and I grew in the Lord almost simultaneous and eventually gave me 'passage' to become a Gideon officer (you know the one's who disribute the Bible,) with him. The greatest accountability was caregiving for him the last months of his life. It made us ten feet tall giants at the foot of the cross inside and outside. Since his passing I had many an 'a-ha' moment over grace walking as I know I'm in Father's lap where grace is amazing! The inestimable worth and value of each human being as God's eyes see us is coming in view more constantly, consistently. I'm not arriving but realizing brokenness in the race for the prize of His high calling! I'm even learning the art of love caregiving for my Mom (godly) now all over again knowing a stately stride in my walk with God! Truly God is love and love keeps no record of wrongs as you say Steve. Can we fathom the acceptance God grants us?
ReplyDeleteThank you Holy Father the thoughts you think toward us are Holy thoughts. They are full of goodness and lovingkindness in Your Nature. They are thoughts of welfare to give us a future and hope. Your actions are not but will show us intervention. You are like a good shepherd God always treating us like sheep that need care. As sheep are not in control help us realize to surrender control to the good Shepherd. By getting what we don't deserve we know grace. Thankyou Abba Father.
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