I'm still working on finishing the manuscript for this book. I have a November 15 deadline, so I'm plowing forward full-speed-ahead. Here's an excerpt I wrote yesterday...
Danny and I were talking one day about how depressed the real estate market has been all over the United States for the past few years. The subject has great importance to him because Danny works for a mortgage company. “Management at our company has already laid off about a third of our employees,” he told me.
“Are you concerned about your job?” I asked him.
“No,” he answered. “I’m believing God for my job. He knows that our oldest son, Dave, is in college now and Ted will start in the fall. If I’ve ever needed a steady income, it’s now. They’re telling us at work that we’re fighting to stay afloat, but I think everything will be okay.”
“I hope so,” I answered.
“I don’t hope. I’m believing in faith,” he responded with mild irritation in his voice.
I immediately knew I had unintentionally said something wrong. I know Danny well enough to understand that his view of faith requires that he affirm with gusto that things will turn out the way he wants. From his perspective, to acknowledge that an outcome any different is even a remote possibility translates to a lack of faith. Faith means believing it will happen the way we’re praying it will happen. It’s that simple to him.
Danny is an example of somebody who thinks he has faith based on how I’ve described that people often misunderstand it. In actuality, that’s not what faith is at all. Faith isn’t thinking positive thoughts about a situation until you finally convince yourself that it will work out the way you want. When the three Hebrew children were threatened with being thrown into the fiery furnace because they refused to bow down to the idol of King Nebuchadnezzar, their response was one of great faith. They said, “Our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the furnace of blazing fire; and He will deliver us out of your hand, O king. But even if He does not, let it be known to you, O king, that we are not going to serve your gods or worship the golden image that you have set up” (Daniel 3:17-18).
The faith of Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego was in their God, regardless of what the outcome of their circumstances might ultimately prove to be. They said, “Our God is going to deliver us, one way or the other. It may be that He delivers us from the fire or He may deliver us through the fire, but either way we are going to trust Him.” These three weren’t rebuking flames or making loud confessions that they wouldn’t go into the fire. They were simply looking to God and trusting in Him.
The fact is that, like many others already have, Danny could lose His job. If he did lose it, though, that wouldn’t mean his faith failed him or that God let him down. It would simply be the way His heavenly Father was working in Danny’s life to move him ahead in carrying out the divine plan He has for him.
I’m not suggesting that there aren’t times when we can believe with confidence that things will turn out the way we are hoping. There are some things that we know without a doubt are God’s will because of His word to us. I’m discussing here the times when we can’t be sure what His will is because He has been silent on the matter. At times like that, we can’t try to use what we may call faith as a way to force God’s hand and get Him to do what we want.
To confidently walk in God’s will for your life, the only thing you need to do is trust Him. Faith is nothing more or nothing less than looking at things through the lens of confidence in God and His word. The answer, then, to feelings of weak faith is simply to focus on the truths we know about our God. Do you feel like you have weak faith? Then remind yourself of who God is and on the fact that He is always reliable. That’s true no matter how things may look at the time life seems unstable. You don’t have to feel great confidence about what the results of your circumstances will be. You only need to cast yourself in total abandon on the One who will determine those results and rest in Him, waiting for Him to do what He will do even though you can’t make any sense of it at the time.
Amen and Amen :D This reminds me of the second time I went to Jamaica with a mission team to minister to the deaf. I had gone the previous January to the deaf village, my 1st ever missions trip and still, years later, I am blown away by what God did on that trip.
ReplyDeleteOn Nov. 17, the van I was driving was hit from behind by a car driven by a young lady who later came to Christ as a result. The wreck totaled my van and my neck at the same time. It became clear a couple of weeks before the mission trip that there was no way I could go. My surgery could not happen until March and there was to be quite some recovery time from that before even thinking about going on a trip anywhere.
About an hour after coming to terms with the fact that I couldn't go and questioning God as to why when I just knew it was His will that I do go, I went down to my local Christian Book store with my young daughter.
The lady working at the store could tell from the look on my face that I was upset about something. When she questioned me, my daughter said, "My mom is upset and hurting because she was supposed to go to Jamaica to see the deaf children and now she can't go because her neck is hurt."
This woman immediately responded, "OH YES YOU CAN GO! If you believe God enough and if your faith is strong enough you can go." I said, "No, I can't go." She restated her opinion (at an even higher volume) and we went back and forth a few times like this before I finally just smiled and left.
While this woman was yelling at me that I could go my God was whispering to my spirit, "Debbie, trust Me. I know the plans I have for you, Baby Girl..."
I didn't go to Jamaica in January, however, I did go to Jamaica in June of that year after a miraculous recovery from surgery, not to the village but to a school. The Grace lessons God taught me on that trip were life changing. That is when I came to the place of a "Need to Know Only" basis with God.
Debbie